Silver is totally safe, although there are silver compounds that will turn your skin bluish-gray if you get too much, something that is just unsightly, not unhealthy. Silverware was originally silver, and it has been in my family as far back as we have history, and my mom, grandmothers, and great-grandmothers always polished all the tarnish off before setting it before guests, but not for when it was just us family. You may have also heard of colloidal silver for healing. I have drunk jars and jars of colloidal silver over the years, getting rid of a bad cold in 15 minutes and even a severe, rapidly spreading infection in my leg in a day. It has not affected my skin color a bit. Now we have learned to get ahead of and avoid the health problems better in the first place through supplemeting nutrients that are missing in our food largely because of modern farming methods. Health is something I have studied a lot as a layman.
As for the lead, I used to even put the lead solder in my mouth at times that I needed a third hand. I don't anymore since supposedly even trace amounts can reduce one's ability to concentrate, but with all I and my peers have done before we knew, it has apparently had no effect whatsoever. We played with mercury in school in the 1960's too, holding it in our bare hands. I will get a good laugh if a new study finds that we do actually need trace amounts of lead and mercury

like copper which we also need but is poisonous in more than trace amounts. Lead is very, vey cheap compared to most metals, and all the lead-free components can be soldered with leaded solder. I have quite a few 1-pound rolls of Alpha Metals 60/40 tin/lead rosin-core solder here that I bought at about $10 each at the local Fry's Electronics. I got them when I thought RoHS was going to limit us here in the States too.
The article on flux appears to be a good one, although I only scanned it. About in the middle, it says, "there is concern that the lead from those electronics will leach into ground water supplies from landfills. [...] Interestingly, according to this publication by IPC, no studies have found any evidence of lead getting into the ground water from landfills." We get the ground water quality report every year with the water bill, and although there's a land fill five miles away that got electronics trash put in it for many decades, the lead level in the gound water is only one-eighth of the action level, and the landfill is not one of the suspected sources. Erosion of natural deposits
is a suspected source though.